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June 2005 Contents
I. Running a Household or Running Off to Dinner
II. Energy Management: Translations from the Psych Research Lab, the Board Room, and the Shrink’s Couch
III. Friends in Print: When you feel like reading
IV. Creative Links
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I. Running a Household or Running Off to Dinner
I’ve just finished a biography of Georgia O’Keeffe and decided that I, too, would like to live in a high-rise hotel suite and go two floors down for my meals. I don’t envy her better-known New Mexico phase, but the hotel arrangement sounds like a way to get a lot of art made.

What would that be like? Some of you may already have arranged your lives so that your art and craft are smack dab in the center of it. Many of us have not. (To my male readers, this is not just for women, but for everyone who is involved in running a house while they also are making art. It seems like women’s territory because they’ve spent more, perhaps way too much, time there.)

I’m pretty simple-minded about our household, which I’m currently running, not because I‘ve been such a disciplined artist but because I’ve always been more interested in reading than the state of the room I’m reading in. My priorities are: food to eat, clothes to wear, stuff organized just enough to find it, fun improvement projects, and last, alas, maintenance and cleaning.

Now that I’m making art, the minimum for food and clothes is really about all I pay attention to. The chance to reorganize, build something, or fix and clean is part of couple time with my accommodating husband. We generally enjoy these projects as part of the balance of our lives. Doesn’t everybody have some of their best family moments on the way to the dump?

“I don’t think I have a great gift. It isn’t just talent. You have to have something else. You have to have a kind of nerve. It’s mostly a lot of nerve, and a lot of very, very hard work.”
~ Georgia O’Keeffe. From Roxana Robinson. Georgia O’Keeffe. 1989

Back to Georgia. Reading about how she was supported to spend her time and energy painting made me dream into how my life would be if the flotsam of food and laundry were handled by someone else. I could easily imagine being more fully immersed in the piece I’m working on. Then I realized that the other thing Georgia had was a partner who was also her agent. I have a pretty cool husband but he’s not Stieglitz. He has a normal day job and does not run a cutting-edge art gallery in New York where he can guide my work into the public eye. No, I am the one labeling slides, figuring out how to record a sale, and sitting on a slurry of receipts that are deductible. I think.

All of which is to say I still might like a restaurant a few feet away and someone who loves me and my work enough to be my agent for free. On the other hand, Georgia had to make her tradeoffs, including all the relatives and socializing that came with the extravert Stieglitz.

What are the support elements you have in your life? Are there downsides to them? If you remind me of the downsides, I’ll be happier just to read about Georgia and let her have that high rise apartment.
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II. Energy Management: Translations from the Psych Research Lab, the Board Room and the Shrink’s Couch  
Bepko, Claudia & Krestan, Jo-Ann. Singing at the Top of our Lungs. Women, Love, and Creativity. Chapter 6 – Artists: The High Creative Pattern.  1993.
How are single-minded creative women different from creative women who juggle many roles? Out of 300+ creative women, Bepko and Krestan found that about 40 (13%) put creativity first in their lives, ahead of relationships and caretaking. They differed in a number of ways, including linking their creativity to spirituality more often and feeling that geographical location was important twice as often.

“She has made choices about the potential distractions of being in a large city….she exposes herself only to those aspects of that community that feed her rather than drain her.”
~Bepko & Kreston. Singing at the Top of Our Lungs. 1993.

One major issue was the risk of being seen as selfish or narcissistic. Another was the fear of actually going for it. From one artist, “Our friend gave up her love for watercolor painting because she knew if she let herself “go”, she wouldn’t want to do anything else. Men and women both fear this immersion.”
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III. Friends in Print: When you feel like reading

McMeekin, Gail. The 12 Secrets of Highly Creative Women. 1993. Chapter 5 – Committing to Self-Focus.

McMeekin is a good listener and a polished writer who interviewed creative women on many issues, including Secret #5 – Committing to Self-Focus. She shares her own choices (“I’ve had to learn to … live with closet chaos.”) as well as synthesizing the choices others make between their art, their homes, and their families.

As one respondent put it, “I find that I remain torn between the deep pull of work and the equally deep pull of family. And yet from the depths of this division, new work continues to emerge.”

The discussion of managing solitude, caretaking, boundaries, and distractions is a thoughtful one; the book is well worth your time for this one chapter and the eleven other “secrets.”

“O’Keeffe’s position continued to be one of passionate concentration on the experience, with a determined disregard of art theory – simply minding your own business…”.
~ Roxana Robinson. Georgia O’Keeffe. 1989

Robinson, Roxana. Georgia O’Keeffe. 1989.
Robinson has woven biographical detail and aesthetic analyses into 500 plus pages that kept me interested the whole time. The author moves between the outer details of the O’Keeffe’s life and the parallel changes in her painting in a way that illuminates both.  For example, she describes the artist painting from her car in New Mexico, moving it to the scenes she wanted to capture. The painting was then continued in the studio, adding reactions and responses in a separate second phase. The timing of this approach is parallel to both the increased availability of reliable automobiles and Georgia’s courage in learning to drive. A good summertime read.
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IV. Creative Links
Although visual artists can use domestic scenes as inspiration, songwriters can be more direct, turning their household chores into lyrics.

www.pegseeger.com The sister of Pete Seeger offers her CD An Odd Collection that contains two songs of how housework affects the creative artist, “Housewife’s Alphabet” and “Leftwing Wife”.

www.reillyandmaloney.com/   Reilly and Maloney - A Collection is a 2000 rerelease of many favorites of this venerable Northwest duo including “Did Beethoven Do the Dishes?”
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