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February
2005
Contents
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| “Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there. ~ Will Rogers |
II.
Energy
Management:
Translations
from
the
Psych
Research
Lab,
the
Board
Room
and
the
Shrink’s
Couch
Julia
Norem.
The
Positive
Power
of
Negative
Thinking.
2001.
The
author
is
a
social
psychologist
who
summarizes
several
decades
of
research
on
how
defensive
pessimists
are
just
as
effective
as
strategic
optimists;
for
years
the
optimists
have
gotten
way
more
ink
in
the
research
and
the
popular
press
as
having
better
lives.
She
describes
how
defensive
pessimism
is
a
very
workable
strategy
for
those
who
have
anxiety
about
some
area
of
their
life.
They
successfully
use
mental
rehearsal
of
worst
case
scenarios
to
handle
challenges.
One common area where defensive pessimism helps is in overcoming shyness, which affects many artists when it comes to showing their work. Rehearsing worst case scenarios is used to identify specific trouble spots and solutions that can be practiced ahead of time and in small steps. One warning to defensive pessimists is that they need not do their dire rehearsing out loud since telling others all the details of worst case scenarios is not necessary and is only likely to cause others to think you’re not capable or just a drag
| “If you can’t get out of it, get into it.” ~ Anonymous |
Her research shows that both defensive pessimists and strategic optimists do well, but in different ways. The strategic optimists tend to have less anxiety to start with and avoid negatives to keep their anxiety levels low while the defensive pessimists use mental rehearsal to reduce initial anxiety. The optimist does better in big picture approaches and where confidence is important (monoprints) while the defensive pessimist does better where attention to detail and having backup plans are important (carving rare ivory).
III. Friends in Print: When you feel like reading
Tracy, Brian. Eat That Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time. 2001. A simply written collection of well-know ideas from successful business people. The main theme is to do the hardest, most important task (frog) first thing every day. Number 16 is Practice Creative Procrastination; it reminds us that some perfectly good ideas of ours never do need to be carried out.
Hoff,
Benjamin.
1983.
The
Tao
of
Pooh
Here
is
an
antidote
to
all
this
anti-procrastination
blather.
Follow
Eeyore,
Piglet
and
Pooh
to
see
how
procrastination
can
lead
to
some
wonderful
places.
Note
that
this
is
a
humor
book,
not
the
last
word
on
Taoism.
Lively, Lynn. The Procrastinator’s Guide to Success. 1999. Very straight-forward journey through the perils and cures of procrastination by one of the few authors that does not go off into goal-setting, time management, or other motivational difficulties. Her beginner’s check-list (Chapter 5) could help unjam your gears.
IV.
Creative
Links.
www.ucalgary.ca/~steel/procrastinus
Easy
to
use
gathering
of
research,
theories,
and
quotes
by
professor
Piers
Steel,
whose
own
theory
on
procrastination
emphasizes
decision
making.
He
includes
links
to
fun
sites
where
you
can
join
procrastination
societies,
test
yourself
to
see
if
you’d
fit
in,
and
find
ways
to
procrastinate
more.
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